You might feel like you’re floating above pink clouds or it can even be the reason why you’re up at night. However, there might be one cruel thought which can raise the question of whether or not they’re the one.
While it may be unfortunate that the one we love so much may not be our soulmate or the one destined to be our life long partner, this fact can nevertheless be true. For true happiness together, you’ll need more than just love especially when you’re willing to commit to a relationship for the rest of your life. Psychologists have gathered the most reliable signs which are applicable to early days of a relationship and in which you can find the answer to your question of whether you’re marrying the right person. These signs can help you live your love to the fullest so if you have noticed them already then you may be in luck.
1Being able to read each other’s mind
According to psychological research it has been proven that love can actually help in aligning yours and your significant other’s nervous system. You will be able to understand each other’s thoughts, feelings, and reactions, after spending a fair amount of tie together. This kind of connection is something greater than just knowing each other really well. Even in complete silence you will be able to simultaneously and effortlessly understand each other. When you are together, try pointing out to something funny without actually saying anything about it. Being able to laugh together so easily is truly a wonderful feeling.
2Having similar ideas for the future
You know that it’s time to “think like a couple” like it’s a language after finding the love of your life. It would be best to start thinking of the future together because you will probably want them to be present in the upcoming years of your life. It’s not always necessary to go after the same aspirations although if they really are the one for you, then somehow you will always find a way to keep your lives together. One of the most important pillars of a life-ling love story is finding the freedom in being together.
3To you it’s worth it
When you’re talking about the one for you, then commitment will be vital for maintaining your relationship as it is not always an all-in-one package. It shouldn’t be surprising for you if you have to make compromises. However, you’ll do it instinctively if it’s right.
Relationships don’t last without sacrifices
Without any sacrifices relationships don’t last long according to psychologists at Kobe University in Japan. But, it doesn’t mean that you’d have to give up on your integrity or change. All you have to do is be moderate enough about your acts so that you can create room for other person’s happiness.
4Your brain will function differently
Often we relate matters of love to the heart, but in reality, it all happens in the head. In fact, the reactions in our brain are very well affected by love as shown in a study by Stony Brook University in New York. The reward center in your brain gets stimulated whenever you think about the one which further increases the dopamine levels. This then causes you to have the sensation of butterflies in your stomach.
5You become each other’s support
When you are with your soulmate at the end of a long day, you will find the boost you needed and it will relieve you of your stress and tension. You will never feel inadequate or discouraged when you are each other’s cheerleader along the way. You will be able to love yourself even more and feel confident after hearing supportive words from the person you love the most.
6Feeling content without any extra effort
One of the biggest and probably the main event of your life, is when you find your life partner, however, it will feel absolutely normal to you. You will internalize this new source of happiness and will feel as if you have already been living like this. It will make feel rather humble about your relationship.
Focusing on each will be your most important goal
You will neither become a person who will talk about their relationship all the time just to prove something to others nor will your social media account be flooded with pictures of you two together. You won’t have time for that stuff since you will be focusing on the relationship itself.
7You will want to introduce them to your loved ones
It’s particularly satisfying when we get approval by our loved ones as basic psychology states that we all need approval in our lives. This is why we like to share our good news with them and like including them in our happiness as it even helps us in reproducing our own happiness.
Meeting the one you are destined to be with will have the same effect. The same instinct will kick in and you will feel impatient about introducing them to your close friends and family. It is particularly helpful if you create a reliable support system with the good intentions of your loved ones, around your blossoming romance.
8You’ll find pleasure inside and outside the bedroom
While intimacy may be important for the chemistry of a healthy relationship, it isn’t the sole responsible factor for it. In the right arms even physical connection will feel different although the attraction to the one will always be present even if they have thick winter clothes on. Just a smile a word, or even a quirk will make you feel like you have found the most special person in the entire world.
9Without them it feels different for you
One of the key points to spending many long years together is to keep and maintain your individuality and independence during your relationship. Nevertheless, it is still important to make space in your life for that special one. Once you find the one, some parts of your life will begin adapting to this happy change and these new routines will soon start to be normal for you. On the other hand, their absence will make it be rather unusual for you.
10You become “we”
A study published by the psychologists at the University of Texas reveal the importance of the usage of “we” and “our” as a part of our natural selection of words in a relationship. You will enjoy talking about the things you and your significant other do and share rather than simply talking about yourself. However, this may not sound fun at all for your other friends who have to listen to your couple stories. But, when you or I become that “we”, it will be the most remarkable token for a life-long love.